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041			_aeng
050			_aBV4597.53.C58 _b.C59 2003
100			_aCloud, Henry
245		0	_aBoundaries Face to Face : _bHow to Have that Difficult Conversation You've been Avoiding / _cHenry Cloud and John Townsend
260			_aGrand Rapids, Mich. : _bZondervan, _c2003
300			_a266 p. _b; _c21 cm.
505			_aPart I : why you need to have that difficult conversation -- The conversation can change your life -- The benefits of a good conversation -- Part II : the essentials of a good conversation -- Be emotionally present -- Be clear about "you" and "I" -- Clarify the problem -- Balance grace and truth -- Stay on task -- Use the formula, when you do "a," I feel "b" -- Affirm and validate -- Apologize for your part in the problem -- Avoid "shoulds" -- Be an agent for change -- Be specific -- Differentiate between forgiving and trusting -- Part III : seeing how it's done -- Telling people what you want -- Making someone aware of something -- Stopping a behavior -- Dealing with counterattack and other problems -- Part IV : getting ready to have the conversation -- Why you need to get ready -- How to get ready -- Part V : having the conversation with people in your life -- With your spouse -- With someone you're dating -- With your kids -- With your parents -- With your adult children -- At work -- With people in authority.
650			_aConflict management Religious aspects Christianity.Conversation Religious aspects Christianity.Interpersonal conflict Religious aspects Christianity.
700			_aTownsend, John
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