PART ONE: TOWARD AN INTEGRATED MODEL OF HUMAN DEVELOPMENT -- Developmental Dilemma -- Reciprocating Self : A Trinitarian Analogy of Being and Becoming -- Reciprocating Relationships -- Reciprocating Self and Developmental Theory -- Reciprocating Self in Social Context -- PART TWO: LIFE-SPAN STAGES -- Infancy : The Emergence of the Reciprocating Self -- Childhood : The Reciprocating Self Goes to School -- Adolescence : More Reciprocity Than You Think -- Emerging Adulthood and Young Adulthood : The Solidifying of the Reciprocating Self -- Middle Adulthood : The Generativity of the Reciprocating Self -- Late Adulthood: The Senescing of the Reciprocating Self -- PART THREE: BUILDING THE SCAFFOLD: APPLICATIONS FOR MINISTRY -- Special Issues in Human Development: Morality -- Differentiated Faith: Spiritual and Religious Development -- Turning Steeples into Scaffolds: The Reciprocating Religious Community.